If we are to be seen as women
and men of integrity, every area of our life will be treated with the same
intensity. We have the same commitment to excellence in our marriage as we do
in our career and our parenting. We can’t choose which ones we show up with
integrity in. You are or you aren’t a person of high integrity.
We have to establish an
authentic code of moral values as our guiding beacon. Said another way, the
root of integrity is about doing the right thing even when it’s not
acknowledged by others, or convenient for you.
1. Keep our
promises
People of integrity keep their
word. If they say they’ll do it, they do it. If they say they’ll be there, they
show up. It’s that simple.
“People
who promise things that they never give, are like clouds and wind that bring no
rain”
2. Paying
your bills
We may not think this is a big
deal, but it’s a huge deal. Do you spend more money than you make? That is a
lack of integrity. Do you get yourself in debt for things that you can’t pay
off? That is a lack of integrity. Ever have someone borrow money and “forget”
about it – or keep delaying it? How did that make you feel?
“The corrupt borrow and never pay back”
3. Refusing
to gossip
We are all looking for friends
of high integrity who know how to keep a secret and not pass it around on
social media. Don’t talk about people behind their back. Don’t even listen to
that stuff, muster the courage to walk away or hold people accountable in the
moment.
“Gossip
can’t be trusted with a secret, but someone of integrity won’t violate
confidence”
4. Be
authentic with others
A person of integrity doesn’t
act one way at home and another way at work and another way on the golf
course.
“We
refuse to wear masks and play games. We don’t maneuver and manipulate behind
the scenes. rather, we keep everything we do and say out in the open”
5. Show
compassion and sympathy/empathy towards others
You cannot live a life of
integrity without showing empathy for others. A lack of compassion for others
results in poor judgment, selfishness, and poor relationships.
“Give
strong drink to him who is perishing, and wine to him whose life is bitter. Let
him drink and forget his poverty and remember his trouble no more.”
Do you have a 6th way to
maintain/develop integrity? Please share below so that others may benefit from
your wisdom.

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